It is abandoning good manners regarding your annihilation and returning all of that to God, and it will be mentioned in the chapter that follows this one, and it is in the stations, such as giving in the types of giving, which is giving for the sake of enjoyment for no other reason, and likewise for a banquet, gathering over food of one’s wealth is a reason other than an invitation to it specifically, without any restriction of the quality of a banquet. Or circumcision, or hospitality, or the aqeeqah, and so on. Likewise, the one who brings goodness for no reason, but rather because the one who does that has a virtuous and good soul in and of itself, then that is he who is polite, and good manners have a state and a station, and this is the door to knowing his station, for his station is what is always established for him, and that is nothing but good manners with the truth, for it has permanence in this world and the hereafter. And only those who were foolish and blameworthy won