Know, may God help you and us, that if the benefactor nullifies his blessing with misfortune or harm, he will not be thanked by God for that, and if the benefactor thanks him for recognizing his humility and poverty towards him, it is good morals for the benefactor not to bestow what he has bestowed on the benefactor, especially while thanking him for that, if he is in need. The one who was bestowed upon him for a matter showed humility and lack of the bestower in asking for that matter for which he was in dire need, and that matter is with the one who was bestowed upon him in the blessing that he bestowed upon him, so the one upon whom he bestowed then has to inform him of what he bestowed upon him and approve of that, and that what he asked of him is present in his very blessing. So when If he lacks in others where he is lacking, then it is permissible for the benefactor to mention to the benefactor his blessing upon him, such as a man who gave a man a thousand dinars as a bless